The Family Health Audit
12 questions. The home is where the steward's character is most accurately measured.
The First Ministry
Success that destroys the home is failure. Growth that robs the altar is not blessing.
Most entrepreneurs are far more honest about their business numbers than about the health of their home. The bank statement is examined weekly. The marriage is examined when it breaks.
This audit measures three areas: your marriage, your fatherhood, and your spiritual leadership of the home. Be honest enough that the results can actually help you.
Each question is rated from 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree).
Marriage
Your covenant ally — the most important earthly relationship
1. My spouse would say I am emotionally present and engaged at home, not just physically there.
2. I have regular intentional conversations with my spouse beyond logistics — about feelings, dreams, faith, struggles.
3. I honor my spouse's voice on major decisions — they have real input, not just notification.
4. I speak well of my spouse — to them directly, and about them to others. I never criticize them publicly.
Fatherhood
Your investment in the next generation
5. I have regular one-on-one time with each child that is undistracted and intentional.
6. I am present at the moments that matter most to my children — games, performances, milestones.
7. My children would say they have heard me speak blessing over them, not just correction.
8. When I come home from work, I transition emotionally — I do not bring the weight of work into the family.
Spiritual Leadership
Your role as priest of the home
9. I lead my family spiritually — I pray with/over them, initiate spiritual conversations, set the tone.
10. I pray for each family member by name regularly — not just in emergencies.
11. Our home follows the divine order — God > Family > Work — observable in how I actually spend time.
12. When I have failed at home, I have confessed it specifically — not just generally apologized.
Answer all 12 to see your results.